Vulnerability (vul-nuh-ruh-BIL-ih-tee)
There is a wound hidden inside vulnerability. The word descends from Latin vulnus—“wound”—and originally described something capable of being physically injured. For centuries, being vulnerable meant having a weakness through which damage could occur. That meaning never disappeared: armies have vulnerable positions, computers have vulnerabilities, and people remain vulnerable to danger. But the word eventually acquired an almost paradoxical human meaning. To be emotionally vulnerable is to knowingly expose the places where you could be hurt. What began as a word for weakness and exposure has therefore become associated with something that can require considerable courage: allowing yourself to be seen when there is no guarantee that what you reveal will be protected.